We can't compare anything with parental love. We really get furious when some parents abandon their children, or vice versa because innermost part of our soul we sincerely depend on parental love.=We really get furious when some parents abandon their children, or vice versa because the innermost part of our soul. We sincerely depend on parental love.
However, we can't always teach our childeren with tender words and sweet touch.=However, we can't always teach our children with tender words and sweet touch. Our children have never experienced outside world, so their self- centered mindset should be corrected sometimes.=Our children have never experienced the outside world, so their self- centered mindset should be corrected sometimes. What's more, since their parents always do their favour, so they expect tantrum and howling work outside. =What's more, since their parents always do their favor, so they expect tantrum and howling in their work outside. Basically they don't understand other beings are as important as their beings. In this point, we have to teach them a lesson.
Our discipline should not start until our children reach proper age. Scholars manifest it would be around age of 3. Before then, they can't understand the meaning and after then, they can be quite egotistical.
Since they never understand our logical point a view, we can't avoid spanking our children during discipline. But never omit to explain the exact reason for spanking. Whether they understand or not, they would imprint exact reason in their unconsciousness, and they can understand how to socialize with others.