Cash the wedding? Don't send money if you don't go, says actor Lee Seo-jin

In South Korea, it is common for people to send money to weddings even if they cannot attend. This is considered a polite way to congratulate the couple. However, actor Lee Seo-jin criticized this tradition, calling it a “flawed custom.”

He shared his opinion during a YouTube live broadcast when a viewer asked what to do after receiving a wedding invitation from a friend they had not contacted in seven years. Lee said that if the relationship is not close, there is no need to attend or send money, especially if the invitation was sent only through mobile.

Lee also explained that congratulatory money should be given only when attending the wedding. If someone cannot attend, he believes it is better to meet the couple later in person, apologize, and give a gift directly to show sincerity.

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Source: https://www.koreaherald.com/article/10703470

Comprehension

What is a common wedding practice in South Korea?
Why did Lee Seo-jin call the custom “flawed”?
What situation did the viewer ask about?
According to Lee, when should people give congratulatory money?
What does he suggest doing if you cannot attend a wedding?

Discussion

Do you think it is necessary to send money if you cannot attend a wedding? Why or why not?
How are wedding gifts or money given in your culture?
Do you agree with Lee Seo-jin’s opinion? Explain your answer.
Is it okay to invite someone you haven’t talked to for many years? Why?
What shows true sincerity when congratulating someone?
Do you prefer giving gifts in person or online? Why?
How important is personal connection in social traditions?
Should traditions change over time? Give examples.

Vocabulary

Gesture – an action that shows a feeling or intention
Flawed – having a problem or mistake
Attend – to go to an event
Sincerity – honesty and genuine feeling
Invitation – a request to come to an event