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Topic : Bullying at school: What parents can do to help victims and stop bullies
2023호 1면
 
TITLE : Bullying at school: What parents can do to help victims and stop bullies

Bullying at school: What parents can do to help victims and stop bullies



Bullying at school: What parents can do to stop it | CNN

 

 


There’s a crisis of bullying in US schools, and the solution is learning what to do before it happens.

 

One in 5 students report being bullied, according to data from the National Center for Educational Statistics. The US government website StopBullying.gov defines bullying behavior as an imbalance of power between perpetrator and victim and repeated (or potential for repeated) incidents.

 

Prevention is at the heart of resolving bullying instead of waiting to respond once a more violent episode occurs or once many incidents escalate to a tragedy. StopBullying.gov offers resources to schools on educating students about bullying as well as techniques for keeping lines of communication open between students and staff. But parents can play a key role in this effort.

 

“We know that victims of bullying can experience negative impacts across all domains of their lives,” said Amanda McGough, a clinical psychologist who works with teenagers and adults and also sits on the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention as the North Carolina chapter president.


“It infringes upon their mental, emotional, physical, social and academic functioning. This may look like low self-esteem, depression, isolation, physical complaints like headaches or stomachaches, or avoiding going to school.”

 

Start by talking with your child about the importance of reporting bullying behavior to a school staff member. If your children witness another student being excluded, teased, humiliated, threatened or physically hurt, they should let an adult know.

 

Most kids won’t be comfortable intervening to help a victim in the moment for fear of retaliation from a bully. But bystanders can still have a powerful and positive effect — not only by reporting the behavior but also by talking to the victim privately afterward.

 

If your kids feel bullied, they should also report this behavior to the school, even if they are only comfortable doing so anonymously. Many of the children of middle school age I work with in my summer leadership programs report that planning ahead about what they’ll do or say if someone is mean to them helps ward off further targeting and makes them feel empowered.

 

If you suspect your children of bullying, get them the help they need with their emotional regulation. Research shows that coping skills taught in cognitive behavioral therapy can help young people manage their overwhelming feelings and cope in positive ways that will benefit them, as well as their family and peers, for a lifetime.

 

“If your child is bullying, approach them by first asking questions about their perspective of the situation,” McGough advised. “Make it clear to them what your expectations are about how they treat other people and ensure you are modeling this yourself. Help them understand that their words and actions impact the other person and set clear consequences if the bullying behavior continues.”

 

You may need to do more. “If this pattern is persistent,” McGough said, “consulting with a mental health professional may be needed as mental health conditions can sometimes contribute to bullying.”

 

“Oftentimes, there’s something else happening for these kids — maybe they’ve been bullied or don’t feel accepted by their peers, maybe there are challenges for them at home or in school,” Pagano said. “This could be an opportunity to get a child help and prevent future bullying.”

 


Source: https://edition.cnn.com/2023/01/16/health/stopping-bullying-in-schools-wellness/index.html

 

Comprehension

How many children were reported according to the National Center for Educational Statistics?
What can victims of bullying experience?
What did Nikki Pagano say about bullying?
What should the parent start doing with their child?
What therapy can help young people manage their overwhelming feelings?
What should the parents do if their child is bullying others?

Discussion

When did you first hear about bullying?
What would you do if you were bullied?
Why do bullies bully other people?
Do you think there should be a punishment for bullying?
How do you think bullying affects the lives of those bullied?
How can governments educate people, especially children, about the harm bullying does?
What do you know about cyberbullying?
Do you think online bullying is worse than or not as bad as physical bullying?
What responsibilities do social networking sites have in stopping cyberbullying?

Vocabulary

perpetrator - a person who perpetrates, or commits, an illegal, criminal, or evil act
infringes - go against, rules and laws
exacerbate - make very annoyed or frustrated
inescapable - impossible to avoid or evade
retaliation - the action was taken in return for an injury or offense
bystanders - a person present but not involved; chance spectator; onlooker